Go figure

For the past few days two old friends popped up. One with a very weird intention and  the other one was due to a miscall I accidentally made.

H (the one with weird intention) is more to an old acquaintance that I have known for almost a year. Previously she asked my opinion on a relationship issue that she was in, I gave her bluntly what I think that she was throwing her future for a guy that has no attention of marrying her. Due to that opinion she cut off all communication with me. I wasn't that devastated, frankly speaking I had that coming for being too direct. 6 months without no news and now she is back, and keep on saying that what happened previously was a mistake and among other things.

A (miscall dude), is an old high school friend, married with two children. He called me last night out of the blue after 5 days I accidentally dialed his number. We haven't had a conversation with each other for more than 17 years, yesterday was the first time. Not what I expected from a friend for whom I have not seen for all those year. He ended up lecturing me about my choice of being single, now that I am 32 and should be married and at least have 2 children like most of my school friends. And perhaps I was too picky about the selection of men that should be my husband or I should not have been too clever during high school and I should have dumb myself down in order to be married. He asked me more about what am I am currently doing, told him that now I am attached with my current company and furthering my study, once I finished that sentence the second part of the lecture begin. I excused myself with a small white lie because I didn't want him to continuously show how shallow minded and chauvinistic he is, I would just rather remember him as the guy who was expelled from school for all the right reasons. (ahhhh...good times) 

Why am I writing about them..because both of them have the least significant reasons for me to care what they actually think. Go figure. (",)