Had a conversation with a classmate about marriage. I don't know why people seems to enjoy talking to me about getting married, or about relationship.
She told me that someone asked for her hand in marriage however she never met the person yet she contemplates that maybe he is the one. She said that "I am not that strong in my faith, I need guidance and I believe that a man can provide that as well as security and comfort". She asked my opinion, all I can say was "It is your life, even if you ask 10 or 20 person, it will come to you to have the final say, but now I think that you have decided to accept the proposal, you just want to know if others share your opinion as well".
She is still young around the age of 25, yet she feels that she cannot live without a man. She has to have a man to be whole. The conversation prolonged for 10 minutes.
Marriage is not like watching a CD, you can skip the part you like, you can pause the moments as you please, or you can just switch it off when it is not to your liking. All you can do is press play and hope for the best.
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Well ... if she wants to gamble her life that way ... *shrugs*
Still young, 25, a lot of things ahead. hmm
i always tell my friends, kawen sebab dah bersedia nak kawen, not because u nak kawen...huhu...
I like that..n that is true...mostly orang nak, even though they are not ready. :)
you dont like her very much do you? i endured crap stories like that from frens, because, well, they are frens. and trust me i've endured alot. may be she considered you to be someone trustworthy and could relate to what she's feeling, but it seems you are not in the mood to listen.
take a chill pill. everyone spill some time, don't they?
It has nothing to do about me liking or disliking her. I don't even know her.
However you are right, maybe she formed an opinion that I could listen to her.
People can spill, seriously I would listen. Only the timing was a bit off. It wasn't because I was not in the mood, it was because I was in class. (",)
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