Had breakfast with an officemate this morning, the guy that I am currently "fishing" a.k.a innocently flirting (testing the theory :p). We talked about a lot of things, especially his way of calling me "kakak", since we are only a year apart, I said to him that I prefer if he calls me by my name and he agreed, so the conversation continued with no formality, just "aku" and "kau" sahaja. He is out of a two year relationship and currently looking forward to be in one soon (we bet that he will only last 3 months without a gf.. jahatkan!!) because he is the type of guy that has to be in a relationship, but he is choosy with whom he wants it to be with, so he is casting his net a bit wide. He told me that he is texting with lot of ladies too, but he has set his eye on a mutual friend of ours, because for him, if that lady say no, he can just fall back to 2nd best. He is not a firm believer on "the best man win" theory. He would treat every women as if he wants to be in a relationship with them, when one fails, he will never run out of choices, but if one shows interest but not to his preferences, he would just walk away. The woman can not be too old, must be younger than him, cause that is the terms that was set by his family. He doesn't mind a woman who works but he prefer that his wife would stay home and look after his children, that would make him much more happier.
From the conversation, I think I can guess where my standing would be if I was in his list (which I rather not be) I would be the bottom last. Owh well.... I've done fishing him, moving on...NEXT PLEASE!
4 comments:
ikan busuk. lelaki melayu mmg membosankan, kalah gadis kampung. yawnnnnnn
I thought that u r currently drooling over a "lelaki melayu".. Hehehe. :p
Tak serious pun, was trying to see if I can actually fish a guy. Testing the water, u said it best.. yawnnnn..
Oh. My. God.
These kind of men are dumb. Why don't they look for the kind of women they really want rather than what people tell them they should want?
After a few years of marriage, it's not uncommon that they'll find the wife boring cos she's only into the kids, and that they don't fun and meaningful conversation with each other.
And start to stray.
And then blame the wife for not making them happy, without realising that they made themselves unhappy by not looking for someone whom they really want.
I met a number of those online before. And they are lame as hell.
Well, they are more focus on their need instead of the necessities to really build a good, strong and happy marriage.
Unfortunately, they are the only one left. :p
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