"Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfection" (Anonymous)
I hung out with a friend of mine tonight after my volleyball training. Despite the age difference, he is my best friend (the only guy I consider as a best friend). I can tell him anything, and everything, and he doesn't mind me being a chatterbox, he just listen attentively and respond accordingly but he does share his own point of view on any issue we discuss. In layman's term, I am comfortable being around him. It is hard to find a person who doesn't judge, avoid, even ignore you, or consider you as a nuisance. I find it is hard to please other to a certain extend we, ourself become dumbfounded . "Ditelan mati emak, diluah mati bapak"
A friend of mine does have a point, what is the used of having to please other when indirectly we are changing, we are not ourselves, but what is the used of being an arse, in the end we are content but alone. What ever the choice is, the important matter would be what makes us happy.
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Pleasing others ... yeah, I know where you're coming from. I learned that it is important to please the people you love, or those who love you and let other ppl rot.
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But it is hard to get rid of this instinct to want people to like us and work towards that. But you gotta strike a balance between what works and what doesn't.
Cheers to great friends whose company are fun!
As for me people just should do what makes them happy, as long as they are not judgmental or critical about what makes other people happy. (",)
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