Kelab taat suami?
"Seorang isteri yang baik adalah pekerja seks yang baik bagi suami mereka" "Seorang isteri perlu menjadi seorang isteri yang baik sampai bila - bila.
Jika terjadi padanya sebagai contoh didera, mereka perlu memikirkan bahawa ini adalah ujian dari Allah kepada mereka". (Dr. Rohaya Mohamad, Vice President of Kelab Taat Suami)
Hmm, what would be the proper reaction to this? My first reaction was, what the h***. How come even in this era people still have the mentality that women are to be the one responsible when their husbands cheat, when they wanted to marry more than one, that the in order for a marriage to work the sexual needs of a husband must be put as the first priority, and it is owkey to be abused as if it's the part and parcel of married life.
I am not married but I do view marriage as a sacred bond between two individuals that have equal share in making it work or am I aiming something that is too unrealistic. Must all the blames be put on women if a marriage fail, and that men do not contribute to any of the reasons.
Malaysians do come out with interesting clubs and what would be next, "Kelab Poligami Malaysia", so just wait and see.
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i told you there is soomething wrong with malaysian women not being feminist AT ALL. see...such a stupid, moronic club...comes from women. go figure.
Never knew that malaysian women have a very low self esteem till that they provide justifications for men to do what they think is right..
Education level got nothing to do with one's mentality. She's a doctor (MD probably) who still thinks like ladies of yore. Sometimes you just draw the bad card and snagged a cheating bastard.
Nao, what I want to see is a Kelab Suami Penyayang. Who wants to step forward to show themselves as shining examples of manhood for other husbands to emulate? Men who makes sure their wives have orgasms, pay bills on time, help with household chores etc etc.
Deadbeat assholes need not apply.
Oh, on snagging a cheating bastard. Women who takes responsibility of the success of their marriage solely on their shoulder tends to have a severely terrible time if a divorce occurs. They would be more likely to commit suicide too.
But if he is a cheating bastard, nothing you do will avert it. You can give the best blowjobs and do things Sasha Grey won't do and he would still cheat. *shakes head*
But to liken yourself to a whore? What is the point of the Rasulullah SAW showing how Islam elevates women? Why can't sex be a mutual thing enjoyed by both parties as lovers, instead of tricks between a whore and a john?
Names are a powerful thing; to even ... would husbands like it if we liken them to sugar daddies? To be reaped when rich and thrown away when poor?
I just ... *shakes head sadly*
Ironically all of the members for the obedient wives club, are wives who husbands are practicing polygamy. I guess they are not whore enough for their husband in bed so they have to share.
Poor women. I guess whoring yourself to your husband is still ain't enough.
Look at it this way: their marriage situation is painful enough that they need a support group and the attempt to show the world that they are okay and it doesn't hurt and they are okay with things when I'm pretty sure, deep inside they want to impale their husbands with a really sharp object.
We shouldn't deride them. Rather, we should look at them with pity and sympathy.
:p
I like the way that u think.. Hehehe. I do wonder do the thought of impaling their husband ever crossed their mind, if they don't have that thought they really deserve 'Payung emas'.
Perit di hati dan jiwa tu Tuhan aje yang tau. More than keeping a stiff upper lip, gotta show game face, mah.
Sacrificing own happiness, that is some price to pay. But who are we to play judge, jury and executioner, they have their reason for doing so, but I do prefer they keep it to themselves.
agree with snuze, panjang lebar komentarmu beb, panaskah sudah ehehe
aku? rasenya perkahwinan itu to complete each other.. maksudnya dua hala, maksudnya kalau sehinggakan nak menghambakan diri pada seorang jantan asal dapat title isteri, boleh blah.. kita tidak lahir ke dunia untuk merendahkan martabat kita.. kalau perkahwinan itu seharusnya meningkatkan martabat kita, meletakkan kita pada tempat yang tinggi dan mulia, contohnya di hati sang suami bukannya di kaki.. ishhhhhh aku tak tahu apa nak jadi dengan makcik-makcik yang sanggup didera itu, kita tunggu tengoklah macamana nanti
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