I love my best friend, not in terms of affectionately fall for her, but I do care for her, to an extend I feel that it is my responsibility to be honest and frank with her about anything and everything. Today, I said something that may offend her, but I was fed up with the games she played. Over and over again, I told her that being in any sexual preferences is a commitment own its own. She accepted it as if she understood the consequences of her actions. But repeatedly like a broken record, she is still doing what she does best, experimenting with her curiosity. It started with an innocent fling according to her, but ended up in a massive drama. I've been listening to all her stories and her venting out, and sometimes I feel that she is making a mockery of people's choices, there is no switch in anyone's life that you can flick just to change who you are, because for me, you can't be straight - gay - straight - gay, as you pleased, that takes will power.
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I gotta say that I disagree with you on this one. I am a firm believer in the plasticity of sexual attraction; it is largely influenced by our customs and taboo. In a community where there is no homosexual taboo, it is not uncommon to hear of experimentation.
After all, there are a number of girls from all-girls school who used to be lesbians get married but still keep a girlfriend on the side. And vice versa.
My guess is that your friend is bisexual; men gave her some aspects that she desires and women fulfill some others. Unfortunately for her, she hasn't found the person who can give her all that she needs (yeah, good luck on that).
OTOH, it sounds like she thrives on all the drama and uses sexuality just add some spice to the situation. But then, I don't know her.
Just my two cents.
Thanks. It is highly appreciated. I guess I was upset because she flips more that a coin does. She enjoys having the companionship of a woman but not to be in a serious relationship with one.
As u said, good luck in finding the woman that could give her all she needs.
Honestly say, the second one fits her well.
Wow, I do sound mad don't I.. hmm
The second one fits her? *grin*
Just because you're friends doesn't mean you're blind to her faults. And yes, I've been friends with drama queens before so I kinda find it easy to identify the type. :p
If you larat nak layan and dengar, do so. Otherwise, tell her that you're not interested and to please find another sympathetic ear to bend.
Yes, I am an unkind friend that way.
No, it showed that you are a no nonsense person. And I should be that in the early stage, I guess I just had enough of all the drama.
Don't mind having a friend like you, less drama, I think.. :)
Darling, I am a seriously low maintenance pal. I figure let's leave the drama for the entertainment industry and we can all ogle the hotties. XD
Hahahaha, awesome. But someone like you either is straight or u r taken.. XD
I am straight only because my culture and custom dictates it *grin*. After all, the Al-Quran was very explicit against male-male homosexuality, but there's nothing against lesbianism. Curious, no?
Besides, in my observation, more women than men are prone to bisexuality. Men are kinda stuck in their routine; only the current crop are actually comfortable admitting attraction to both sexes. Those who used to keep boys on the side are usually gay but used their wives as a beard.
Taken? HOMG LOL ROTF LMAO. Not yet, bb, not yet. Waiting for a sign from God on that one.
I used to think I scare guys, but then I realised that the males in my environment are either married or kanak2. So, nothing. *grin*
Like I said to all my friends, there is always someone for everyone. As for me, you are cool for a science geek.. Love your blog, love your opinion and love sharing it with you. So thanks for being my virtual low maintenance single straight friend. (",)
*hugs*
I am delighted to be your virtual low maintenance single straight friend!
You have a good weekend, sugar!
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